When And Why A Woman Sleeps With A Man

When And Why A Woman Sleeps With A Man

Men work so hard to discover formulas that will get women to sleep with them. They have all of their tricks—their lines—and they think they’ve got it figured out. But in reality, if a woman sleeps with a man, it’s probably for one of these reasons: - See more at: http://madamenoire.com/120225/when-and-why-a-woman-sleeps-with-a-man/#sthash.2cojujAA.dpuf

He’s sweet and he deserves sex

 It’s like the high school cheerleader that slept with the band nerd. Or the sorority girl who slept with the “alternative” guy who wasn’t in the Greek system. Sometimes, a woman just sees that a guy is a sweet, good person who deserves to have some good sex. And, she knows he will be psyched to get to have it with her because she is way out of his league. And for a woman, it can feel good to be that wanted sometimes.

She needs to cut loose

 She is on vacation. She leads too rigid of a life. She is tired of having to stick to the “plan.” The plan of making him wait X amount of time so he respects her. The plan of only sleeping with men she plans on having a relationship with. A lot of sexual frustration can get pent up living a life like that and sometimes, a woman just needs to cut loose and invite the cute foreign guy from the club home for the night.

She just got screwed over

 She had a boyfriend who she had given her all to. She was devoted to him. She treated him like a king. And he cheated on her. Or just told her one day “I’m in love with someone else.” And she realizes he has been having his fun all along—he was getting to have his cake and eat it too. And now she is ready to eat some cake. She deserves it after sitting around waiting at home for that ahole.

She’s drunk & the date went well

 Sometimes, she just gets caught up in the moment. The chemistry has been there since the first second of the date. The conversation has been incredible. The guy took her to the most amazing restaurant. There has already been a ton of kissing, cuddling and….drinking on the date. It just seems natural to go to bed with a guy at this point.

She’s waited “long enough”

 Some women know they are hyper sexual beings. They have made the mistake of sleeping with a guy on the first date too many times so they finally set up a rule for themselves: no sex until date #X. But, as soon as that number comes along, they are so ready to reward themselves for waiting.

He’s waited “long enough”

Some women have rules. They believe that the only way to truly know if a man likes them is to make him wait 3 months, 6 months, 9 months…to have sex. If they sleep with him before this, they are forever nervous after that that he only likes them for the sex.

You’ve been friends for a while

 If a woman has been friends with a guy for a long time and then suddenly, one night her feelings take a turn for the more corporeal, she might just sleep with him on the spot. She won’t necessarily ask him on a date, or just tell him she likes him. She might just grab him, kiss him, and steer her towards the bedroom. Since he has been her friend, she already knows he likes and respects her, so she doesn’t feel the need to make him jump through the dating hoops.